How to develop a Strong Presence and Personality

1. Sincerely be nice to people and practice what you preach.
2. If you have something to say, say it loudly without fear
3. Don’t fear people. Love them instead. You can’t fear what you love.
4. Don’t be ignorant of current issues. Watch the news and read newspapers to stay up to-date.
5. Encourage and motivate people. Sometimes, stick your neck for people.
6. Don’t be a pessimist. Have charisma and give people hope. They’ll respect and love you.
7. Display leadership qualities and lead by example. Take responsibility for mistakes and blame and don’t blame others. Praise promptly and share credit with your people, team or group.
8. Genuinely help people and show them how to get out of tough situations. When you help people, don’t expect anything in return.
9. Eliminate ignorance by reading books and teach people what you know.
10. Looks matter. Improve your looks and learn to dress smartly.
11. Don’t be average. Teach average people how to become extraordinary.
12. Improve your communication skills and learn public speaking.
13. Transform yourself from an introverted, selfish, egocentric and self-centered animal, to an extroverted, selfless person.
14. Dare to venture into the unknown and sometimes take people along with you.
15. Accept mistakes and criticism and move on. There will always be people who will hate your guts.
16. Accept failure but never accept defeat. Develop a “never give up” spirit, even when there’s no evidence of success in sight.
17. Be quick to listen and slow to speak. There’s no monopoly of knowledge and no one knows it all. Encourage other people to speak while you listen and show by deed how much you appreciate what they have to say.
18. Be quick to forgive and slow to anger. Anger is not a good sign especially when you display it in the public eye. It turns off people’s enthusiasm and dampens their spirit. Learn to suppress anger and always try to find the cause instead of focusing on it.
19. Always be yourself, believe in yourself, have self-esteem and self-confidence. Be passionate about your ideals and don’t copy exactly what others are doing. Have a positive mental attitude and shun negativity. Remain steadfastly loyal to your commitment.
20. Be cheerful and happy. Happiness is contagious. Smiling is the best way to transfer happiness. Become a man or woman of humor. Share jokes even in public. Always smile while talking. Even on the phone. When you’re happy everybody around will start becoming happy.
21. Seek reputation and honor — not fame. They are more valuable than gold. Reputation is earned, and the news about it travels faster than the owner.
22. Knowledge alone isn’t enough. Cultivate wisdom to improve your judgment. Occasionally show seriousness when the situation calls for it.